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It's an interesting and curious phenomenon having great self confidence and esteem in some areas of life and little to none in others.
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For example maybe at work you have great self confidence. You know how to do your job well, you have confidence speaking up for yourself, talking to people, making presentations, expressing your ideas, trying new things, admitting when something doesn't work and assisting others.
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But when you get home and are faced with a spouse, children, family members, friends, people you have an intimate relationship with, all of that self confidence and self esteem dries up.
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In fact you may find yourself doing and acting the opposite then your confident self.
You let family, friends, your spouse push you around.
You feel inadequate as a mother, father, sibling; friend.
You have zero confidence speaking up for yourself, expressing your ideas, telling people NO, practicing self care; doing what you want to do.
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Why does this happen? What is the cause of being super confident in one area of life and then little confidence in another?
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It boils down to your Beliefs.
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Likely you had past experiences which didn't turn out as planned and in the moment of that energy charged situation, you locked inside of yourself pockets of heavy emotions, heavy memories and made snap decisions about yourself, other people, life in general. Decisions like, I can't do it, I'm not good enough, I'm not lovable, people don't like me, nothing ever works for me, the world is against me, life is hard, people think I am stupid, a failure; I am a
failure.
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And when you lock those thoughts, memories and decisions within, then feed them with raw intense in the moment emotion like sadness, anger, upset, shock, embarrassment etc they take hold and grow. They become your beliefs.
And as they grow new patterns, behaviors, strategies are created most often on a subconscious level as protection. Protecting you from a future similar outcome. Protecting you from your fears and worries.
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While the protection program may work for a while, at some point what was meant for good becomes destruction, self sabotage and infiltrates other areas of your life.
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🌟 Then one day you wake and decide you want to make change.
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To release the limiting beliefs and patterns we do the inner work.
Belief therapy work. Create new awarenesses. Open up to new consciousness.
Make new decisions and choices. Create an energetic shift within and then through action set that new into motion.
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And that is what we are going to do together for 30 Days starting November 1st to Build and Boost Your Self Confidence and Self Esteem.
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To Build and Boost....
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Self Trust. Self Love. Self Honoring. Self Care.
I can do it attitude. Let's try it attitude.
Saying No. Saying Yes.
I am lovable. I am worthy. I am deserving. I am amazing. I am capable.
When something doesn't meet expectations, to FALL FORWARD and say,
okay let's make some changes, tweaks or a brand new plan rather then beat yourself up about it.
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Then as you build and grow all of these aspects and more, these aspects begins to infiltrate every area of your life but this time it is supportive energy.
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May I ask you a personal question?
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Do you keep your promises to yourself?
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Or do you make promises to yourself that you never keep, creating an atmosphere of mistrust within? an energy of I am not worthy or deserving. I can't do it. I don't matter.
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One of the topics we will address during the 30 Days is keeping Promises to self because it touches many aspects of Self Confidence and Self Esteem.
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Build and Boost Self Confidence & Self Esteem Starts Sunday November 1st.
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Every 3 to 5 days you will receive via email a teaching and home assignment all designed and proven to support growth in the areas of self confidence and self esteem.
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Your brain is fed with information, new possibilities, inspiration and awareness and the action helps to integrate and ground NEW.
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The teachings and assignments will also help to clear and release limitations which have been suppressing self confidence and self esteem perhaps all of your life?
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I will do supplementary videos accessed on a private You Tube link to compliment the teachings.
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We have a private WhatsApp Group Chat Board to post your home assignments, make comments on what you are experiencing, ask me questions, get assistance if needed, interact with and support your fellow classmates.
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And choose to add on a one hour private session with me and together we will do some inner work to troubleshoot a limiting belief or pattern holding you back.
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I extend to you a personal invitation from me to join us starting this Sunday.
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Build and Boost Your Self Confidence and Self Esteem 30 Day Event
November 1 to 30th
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I'm looking forward to seeing you in class!
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~ Love Esther