What Lurks Beneath... No One Chooses Me + Winner

Published: Sun, 01/26/14

Esther Bartkiw

Whispers From The Soul ~ Change From Within

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Let's take a peak and see what lurks beneath, hidden in the subconscious mind.

The following is a brief overview of a layer of limitation uncovered during a seven hour CBE Session with a female client in November.


It is only a very small portion of the density unearthed during this transformative session. The changes which resulted in M's life were so dramatic she has given me permission to offer you a few details in trust it will assist in some way.

Client: Female, 52 yrs, divorced, entrepreneur

Presenting issue: Unable to have a sustaining long term romantic relationship.

During our initial Conscious Discussion I uncovered a core limiting belief:
No one ever chooses me. This belief showed up in business, with clients, service providers, opportunities and relationships with men.

We connected with the part of M's subconscious mind that held the belief: No one ever chooses me.  (A victim program.)

I began to guide M through a journey of her subconscious mind discovering, exploring, unraveling and releasing the pattern and paradigm at hand.

Part's Job: To protect M from feeling unloved and uncared for.
Started the job: Age three when M's younger brother was born and everyone started to pay attention to the new baby.


The part made the decision: I am unwanted. No one chooses me. Everyone is choosing him. No one loves me.

Coping Strategies: What the part did as a result: cry, break things for attention, eat food for comfort, poke at brother to make him cry, withdraw

Forty-nine years later these beliefs, decisions and coping strategies created a life situation in which M was unable to connect with a man for relationship.
She always felt let down that no one chooses her and uses food and drink to soothe and cope. As a result her health suffers at times. Her self esteem is low with men and in the arena of romantic relationships. She finds herself alone and lonely.

I dug deeper with M always getting to the core layer.

These limitations were also showing up in her budding business.
Despite achieving some success in her business, it was not growing to its potential.
M felt no one chooses her; clients, opportunities etc...
As a result the energy of the feeling permeated her personal life and business life. Her business is not growing.

M is always anticipating the man and or the client to leave her because no one chooses her.
She doubts that good opportunities will come her way because no one chooses her. She feels less then, reliving over and over her childhood when she felt everyone chose her brother over her.

Interestingly she does not hold this belief no one chooses me with women friends.
Why? Because she held the belief that women friends were a dime a dozen she could always find one.
But good men for relationship and clients were not a dime a dozen so it was imperative that when she found one they choose her. More limiting beliefs. This belief created an energy of desperation around M which was picked up on consciously and subconsciously by men and potential clients.

The paradigm, limiting beliefs and decisions were just the tip of the iceberg of what lurked beneath in M's subconscious mind.

During the seven hours of CBE processing we dug even deeper into the belief system under-earthed as many limiting threads and dense energy pockets we could discover and began the change on all levels and layers of her being. (mental, emotional, physical, spiritual.)

We brought this outdated part of her subconsciousness mind into
harmony with M and her current desires.

Three months later M's business is starting to show signs of growth. She is dating again without the inner mantra of: Will he choose me?
M feels more confident in her ability to create a loving lasting relationship on her terms and attract clients of her choice.
M is growing in Self Love.

*To learn more about Core Belief Engineering CLICK HERE.

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